Don,
Please do not feel the need to defend yourself. In my comment to the other person asking if anyone dealt with you before, I did not attack your credibility. I simply stated an opinion. I simply stated to be careful who you deal with over the internet, especially when they ask the buyer to send their money first. Don't you think that is good advice?
Now if you were affiliated with say, amazon.com, or some other reputable merchant, I wouldn't be so hesitant in sending my money first. However though, you are not! You are simply someone who frequents this newsgroup and is trying to sell a collection of videotape seinfeld episodes. How are we, the buyer, suppose to know what we are getting, and if we are getting it? Just because you say you'll send something, are we suppose to be at your mercy? Do you think that everyone who does business with ebay is legit?
As a buyer, I use caution when it comes to sending $100 to someone I never met before. For that matter, anyone can make a false alias and defend your credibility in this newsgroup. Not saying your doing it, but just stating it can be done. You also say people get what they pay for. True, and anyone can duplicate vhs seinfelds on tv, all they need is a vcr, so please do not act like you have some magical DVD quality seinfeld episodes on tape.
My opinion is, if people want to be foolish enough to send you their money first, so be it. I'm not trying to hurt your side job here, as you stated you are getting laid off soon from work, I am also. All of the reasons you stated for being adamant with receiving the money first, you ought take into consideration how the buyer feels. If the buyer is smart, they will find out they do not need to settle for anyone, or anyone's terms. It's their money, so it should be their terms. If you decide to not send us what we buy, are we suppose to turn you in for trying to buy illegal tapes? That would be smart, eh?
I found someone who sent me numerous seinfeld episodes first, before payment, and I am happy with the avenue I chose. Good luck with your side job Don!