Chandler is in hell. He's married to a control freak and never stands up to her. The whole "no secrets" thing (rerun in syndication last night) proves that he's a homo. NO guy tells his wife every secret. It's totally preposterous.
Despite that horrible turn of events, Ross is truly gayer- too many examples to mention them all: The whining, the perfectly-appointed apt., the more whining...
..but you all know the score.