Joey

Mar 22, 2002, 9:42 PM ET6 posts by 6 posters
6 posts
Caitrion

I would just like to point out a few things about Joey, Most people have him labeled as a womanizer who can never hold on to a serious relationship but when you think about it the serious relationships in his life have all been ruined and they were not his fault. For instance with Kathy. Him and Kathy had a great relationship and then Chandler runied it. I know at the time of Chandler and Kathy's kiss, Joey was on another date, but I don't think we can really hold that againist him. Phoebe was doing the same thing. Secondly in his relationship with Kate. He had "the night" as Monica put it. That is very important thing and he obviously had great feelings for her. Then Kate left. Then with Cecila the actress who played Jessica. He had deep feelings for her as well until she left as well. He also seemed to be developing a good relationship with Janine until her and Monica had a rift. In all of these situations Joey was let down not the other way around. I think it is wrong to deem him as a womanizer. He does want a relationship. I think one of the reasons his is a deemed as a womanizer is the fact that he might be afraid of being let down. He obviously wants a good relationship as he tells Ross and Frank Jr. in the eposoide where Frank Jr. is getting married.

SofyaCaitrion

"Caitrion" wrote in message news:[email]...

ROFL! Thats a good one! You obviously didn't see tonight's 11pm syndicated episode. All they had was sex...and more sex...and then...oh yeah...SEX!

and then

Chandler and Kathy had a connection...Joey has a "physical" connection with EVERY women...just because he can please most(if not all) women in bed doesn't mean that they would want to be in a serious relationship with him or that he wants to either.

Sofya

JamesS1889Caitrion

In article , [email] (Caitrion) writes:

This is going somewhere comical.

Chandler, the one who actually appreciated Kathy as a person, the one who bought her a great birthday present and then let Joey give it to her, the one who was so neurotic he humiliated himself in order to win back Joey's friendship, the one who babysat Joey's "girlfriend" while he was out scoring with his newest "hot babe", ... HE totally ruined Joey's "great" relationship with Kathy. Joey "two wrongs make a right" Tribbiani was completely justified in what he was doing simply because Phoebe was doing the same thing.

I think I'm ready for my lobotomy now. Obviously the brain I currently have is malfunctioning. The smoke is coming out of my ears, my control panel is blinking wildly as my processor tries in vain to compute the most ridiculous logic it has ever encountered.

It was Kate's stand-in (I forget her name?) who Joey mistreated.

That one I'll give you (mostly because I can afford to).

In exactly one of these situations, Joey was let down. In all the other ones, it was indeed the other way around. Sorry, you completely lost your argument with me.

Sure he wants one, but except for lately I don't think he's ever been much interested in really putting forth the effort required to have such a relationship. He's been madly comparison shopping for the best babe most of his life, discarding them almost as fast as he picks them up. Yes, one or two have gotten under his skin a little more than the rest, but until he started having feelings for Rachel he really hasn't shown much maturity in his relationships. --- James Squire - http://members.aol.com/jamess1889

David BuehrleJamesS1889

"JamesS1889" wrote in message news:[email]...

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Best line I've heard all month. Kudos. I know exactly what you mean.

ridiculous

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abrahammyCaitrion

"Caitrion" wrote in message news:[email]...

I'm with James on this one. The writers went out of their way to make it clear that Joey did not appreciate Kathy, did not understand her, and was not treating her particularly well. He got her a crappy birthday present. Chandler got her exactly what she wanted. They played that up as a significant difference in perception and consideration.

Why on earth not? That says volumes about their "great relationship" and whether or not he was a womanizer.

That makes Phoebe look worse, not Joey better.

And he hurt another girl in the process. Joey acted like a womanizer in that scenario.

. In all of these situations Joey was let down not the other

No, I don't think this argument holds water.

That indicates personal growth by Joey *now*. He is more mature than he used to be.

tommygirl35Caitrion

Hey has anyone noticed that Joey hasn't really said anything about him still being in love with Rachael. What happened? Does he still like her and why all of the sudden did it not become so important to him? Maybe I missed something? Now ever since he told her the show has been more focused on Ross :( and Rachael:).

Tommygirl35