who is the happiest friend?

Apr 19, 2002, 11:24 AM ET24 posts by 13 posters
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ViviC01

of the six, which one would you say is the happiest? not necessarily in love, but altogether in love, financial security, disposition, comfort level, family and friends, career, with themselves as a person...etc. take everything into consideration and vote for the happiest friend!

VanessaViviC01

Hi all.

I've been enjoying lurking around on this group for a while. Thought I'd have a post.

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Definitely Monica. She has everything she ever wanted now. A husband, a decent chef's job and children are more of a reality than a fantasy now. Don't flame me to death, but personally I think she's mental. Much as I love Chandler, Richard was clearly the love of her life. All of the others are still lacking something - Joey's career is doing well but his love life sucks, Rachel is having a baby but alone, Ross really just wants to be happily married and isn't, Chandler still has his sucky job and Phoebe is too much of a mystery for anyone to know.

That's my 2c worth. btw, I'm from the UK but have seen up to 819. Favourite character: I'm currently enjoying a crush on Joey.

Vanessa

~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~ I'm not into working out. My philosophy: No pain, no pain. -- Carol Leifer

JaviVanessa

I think is Joey. He don�t need a lot of things to be happy,and his love life is how he want it to be

ViviC01Javi

joey?? his love life is how he wants it?? have you been watching season 8???

JaviViviC01

Yes i�ve been watching it,have you been watching the whole series? Does he take care about falling in love,marrying or something? The "Rachel thing" never seemed like Joey�s classic stuff,it was a joke

abrahammyJavi

"Javi" wrote in message news:a9q509$93t$[email]...

I agree that the happiest Friend is Joey. It all boils down to one critical thing: of the six people, he is the one who is emotionally the most healthy, and therefore needs to play the fewest head games with others.

Amy and Daveabrahammy

"abrahammy" wrote in message news:Hk2w8.19209$[email]...

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I have to agree with Vanessa. Monica was the first one to come to mind. She has everything she wants (except a baby). the only main thing that gives her problems are her parents, but she doesn't deal with them too often. I think she has the most to be happy about though.

JaviAmy and Dave

Let�s see: She hasn�t got the baby and her parents drive her crazy,then is she the happiest? I don�t understand you

Marita BakkenAmy and Dave

"Amy and Dave" wrote in message news:...

I totally agree. Monica seems really happy and content these days. After her initial reaction (i.e. 802 TOW The Red Sweater), she calmed down, and we haven't seen any signs of her being miserable. Even though she doesn't have any children yet, she knows that when they're ready, Chandler will be fine with it (e.g. 612 TOW The Joke, 702 TOW Rachel's Book, 724 TOW Monica and Chandler's Wedding, part 2).

~Marita [email]
VanessaViviC01

Hi all, sorry if this appears twice but it's my first post and I'm a bit thick.

I've been enjoying lurking around on this group for a while. Thought I'd have a post.

"ViviC01" wrote in message news:[email]...

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Definitely Monica. She has everything she ever wanted now. A husband, a decent chef's job and children are more of a reality than a fantasy now. Don't flame me to death, but personally I think she's mental. Much as I love Chandler, Richard was clearly the love of her life. All of the others are still lacking something - Joey's career is doing well but his love life sucks, Rachel is having a baby but alone, Ross really just wants to be happily married and isn't, Chandler still has his sucky job and Phoebe is too much of a mystery for anyone to know.

That's my 2c worth. btw, I'm from the UK but have seen up to 819. Favourite character: I'm currently enjoying a crush on Joey.

Vanessa

~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~ I'm not into working out. My philosophy: No pain, no pain. -- Carol Leifer

consideration and vote for the happiest friend!

jordy bulthuisViviC01

Definately chandler!!!

He has the best combination of being serious and funny. "ViviC01" schreef in bericht news:[email]...

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Jennjordy bulthuis

"jordy bulthuis" wrote in message news:...

I actually agree. From TOW Chandler Takes a Bath: "Monica, it's 2:00 on a (Wednesday? Saturday?) afternoon and I'm watching Road Rules. How stressed do you think I am?" <g>

He generally seems like a pretty happy guy of late. No worries!

And I *totally* disagree that Richard was the love of Monica's life. He doesn't complement her the way Chandler does.

VanessaJenn

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How do you think Chandler compliments her? I agree that Chandler and Monica make a good couple, but she just seemed more in love with Richard, and more comfortable with Chandler. Richard seemed more like her equal, whereas she and Chandler seem to have a parent/child relationship to me. What do you think?

Vanessa ~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~ I'm not into working out. My philosophy: No pain, no pain. -- Carol Leifer
DonjaViviC01

well i think even do she is a mystery, Phoebe is the happiest. she has a few problems but she is a very happy going person, it doesn�t bother her very much, she lives in het own little happy world

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SofyaDonja

This is a hard question...I know who I can definately cross out...Ross and Rachel...lol. Joey is happy as long as he has someone he can sleep with any given day of the week. But...its not just about the sex and having women all the time that would equal someone being happy. I don't think Phoebe is as happy as she would be if she had David the Minsk guy back. I wish they would bring him back. If I was Chandler I would not be happy because of how bossy Monica is and how he's treated like a child. I liked it when they were sneaking around. So I guess my pick would have to be...Monica!

Sofya

"Donja" wrote in message news:a9umin$2lct$[email]...

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David BuehrleSofya

"Sofya" wrote in message news:a9v4rf$inu$[email]...

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So Monica wins by process of elimination for me as well. But here's what I think each "friend" needs:

ROSS: A stable family life. It would suit his true personality well. Oddly, he seems to want Rachel in that picture, but that's not for me to pick apart. (Not here, not now, anyway.)

RACHEL: A strong, understanding man who will give her enough room to continue her personal growth, but will also provide a safety net and a nurturing environment. Apparently she sees this potential in Ross. God help her.

CHANDLER: A backbone. I think he has developed some cartilage, but it's a long way from confident self-support. Maybe some career advancement might help him.

PHOEBE: A soulmate. It might be argued for or against for most people, but for her, it is a definite must. No halfway maybe man for her. David might be that guy, but they seem very different to me. Maybe they are supposed to complement each other.

JOEY: A nice, somewhat attractive (but not TOO attractive), down-to-earth girl from Brooklyn (or perhaps Sherman Oaks, CA?). She would have to be a well centered emotionally, and have a great deal of patience at first. I don't think he should pick an actress, but someone connected to the arts would be a nice fit. She must want kids. Joey is going to want, maybe three or four.

MONICA: A baby. She has everything else she needs. She is always the hostess, hence the door is rarely locked; the apartment is clean; she has a husband who loves her and will do whatever she asks. The only thing missing is the little one. And it's about time for that little one doncha think?

GUNTHER: His own series. Or perhaps Gunther and Joey move to LA to do a movie together. They share an apartment. The movie is a modate success. So, they are okay to start out, but must continue to strive and struggle to make ends meet. Gunther meets unusual people with great regularity and invites them to the apartment, making Joey appear to be Einstein in comparison. Joey starts dating a better quality of women, and establishes better relationships with them. He refuses to date women from the valley having the fear that they are bubble-heads, until years later, when this new series has run its course, and he meets the woman of his dreams from Sherman Oaks.

How's that?

Christoph PäperDavid Buehrle

David Buehrle :

He needs some time off. To seriously think about what a stupid guy he was mostly since he broke up with Rachel.

He said Rachel *used* to be the face of his dreamt wife in TOW Rachel's Date. There's some serious stuff to be worked on before those two [three] could be happy together everly after.

She could be happy with a man like early seasons' Ross who adores her. For a while. Well, she already was in season 2-3. Now she needs a man and a father for her child who loves her, but giving contra too; this /could/ be Ross as both are maturing.

Additionally he needs a kid to do right what his parents did wrong. Before that his life wouldn't be fulfilled.

I think she's perfectly happy already, otherwise she would change it immediately. Her friends are building up families now, thus they might share less time with her, thus she might have the time and need for one man in her life.

Pre-812-Joey doesn't need that to be happy, just food'n'sex and at least one close friend. I dunno how he can be happy 20 years from now.

One won't do it.

ACK. Please no Joey spin-off.

Christoph

my fanfic: <http://fanfiction.net/profile.php?userid=183370> Chandler: (crying hysterically) I just don't see why those two can't work things out! [614 - TOW Chandler Can't Cry]
SofyaChristoph Päper

"Christoph P�per" wrote in message news:a9vnmo$2tle$[email]...

I'm beginning to hate these acronyms more and more. I only know the "famous" ones such as IMO. What does ACK mean? I've asked this many times but can't remember. Already Closed Knowledge? All Certain Knowledge?

Sofya

PeterSofya

"Sofya" wrote in message news:a9vp0k$lfo$[email]...

"famous"

Sofya--I don't think it's an acronym, but rather an exclamation like "Aaargh!" Cathy (of the comic strip) uses it this way all the time.

Belphoebe

David BuehrlePeter

"Belphoebe" wrote in message news:WhKw8.11370$[email]...

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LOL I didn't notice your post when I responded to Sofya. Funny that we would both apply a comic strip example to illustrate our explanations! Well done.

PeterDavid Buehrle

"David Buehrle" wrote in message news:yVLw8.25985$[email]...

Well

Heh. And I'd forgotten all about Bill the Cat using it that way. I miss Berke Breathed's comics. :(

Belphoebe

David BuehrleSofya

"Sofya" wrote in message news:a9vp0k$lfo$[email]...

"famous"

If I understand the use, it's like Bill the Cat from the comic strip Outland who used to say "Ack" to show dislike for something--kind of like "acking" up a hairball. One of the six friends might say "eeeewwwww" instead.

Christoph PäperDavid Buehrle

David Buehrle :

Oops, I thought it was used in English Usenet as well, it's quite common in the German part (de.*). It's from the modem protocols and is short for "acknowledged". The opposite is NAK or NACK.

No, sorry, never heard of that comic strip.

Christoph

my fanfic: <http://fanfiction.net/profile.php?userid=183370> Chandler: (crying hysterically) I just don't see why those two can't work things out! [614 - TOW Chandler Can't Cry]
VanessaChristoph Päper

"Christoph P�per" wrote in message news:a9vnmo$2tle$[email]...

I'll second that!

Vanessa ~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~'~ I'm not into working out. My philosophy: No pain, no pain. -- Carol Leifer