I lurk, unlike past times, when I actively participated, reading spoilers etc, and what I see is to say the least, well... weird.
To put it mathematically, you've all become obsessed with this set:
{Monica, Rachel, Pheobe} x {Chandler, Joey, Ross} \ {(Monica, Ross)}
It seems now that everyone thinks Friends has to be about these so called "Friends" getting together. Why?
I'll leave it there then.